@ned yeah, I'm about to do that, right after I write a civil note to let the neighbour know what her gardener did.
Shame about the nectarine tree though... can't do anything about that.
@rose_myrtle @ned Maybe write your thoughts out to organize them, but so much is lost in writing. I would kindly speak to the neighbor in person, you might get lucky, they might be willing to make things right.